Dating for Guys: The Secrets of Success

The best advice on dating for guys is to take a look at what successful daters are doing. What they are doing (and maybe not doing) clearly works and is worth learning from.

I’ve surveyed a large number of successful guys who date online and distilled that survey down to the top three factors that seem to influence success. Here they are:

1. There’s no doubt that guys with a relaxed, confident attitude seem to find it much easier and have more success. You need to cultivate a little bit of charm, wit, character. Guys who are interesting conversationalists, good listeners, polite and humorous have most success.

It’s maybe a bit of a no-brainer but needs to be said. Any guy can improve himself on this score. Just learn to relax, believe in your good qualities, read, and take an interest in life. Also, these guys who get the girl time after time are the guys who show her real and proper respect. Never forget it.

2. Interestingly, guys who date successfully online are patient and definitely not needy or desperate in any way. It seems that an attitude more like “there are plenty of fish in the sea” rather than “I gotta have THIS girl” is the attitude that brings success. In fact, it’s arguably the best piece of advice if we’re talking about dating for guys. In essence, it comes down to worrying about the results. Just get on with the relationship building and let the rest take care of itself.

So, caring less about the outcome gives a better chance of getting the results you want.

3. The third most important factor is that successful online daters are very active and regard the dating sites and services they use as social forums as much as anything else. These guys send out lots of messages every day to girls that they like. They maintain a lot of conversations. Essentially, you have to cast your net wide and cast it often.

But this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be choosy. One of the reasons these guys are so active is precisely because they are hunting not just for any old woman but seriously seeking quality dates. So be busy in the online dating world but keep your standards high.

Don’t expect every woman you approach to wind up as your date.

In summary, dating for guys can work well if you are charming, interesting, develop your listening skills; be patient, confident and relaxed; be active and approach all the women that appeal to you.

Guys who do that have a lot of success. And did you notice one very interesting thing? Looks seem to have nothing to do with it. Sure, you should be clean and care about how you dress but it doesn’t seem to matter at all whether you look like a movie star or just a regular Joe.

It’s all about your attitude.

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Keep Your Memories Safe In A Personalised Photo Book

Virtually every family now owns at least one digital camera, and the ease with which digital photographs can be taken means that the same families will have amassed vast collections of pictures over the years. Every holiday, every family event, even simple day trips out will have been documented in great and colourful detail and, while this is clearly a good thing, it does produce a problem in terms of saving and accessing all of these images.

The thing which has to be remembered is that a photograph is more than just a picture, it is a memory, a moment in time captured forever to be brought out and enjoyed over and over again. Who hasn’t whiled away a few happy hours going through the family photo tin, marvelling at how tiny their grown up children once were, how ridiculous the fashions of the day appear now, how many happy times they’ve all had together. That’s how precious these pictures are, and that’s why they need to be looked after properly.

The very ease with which we can now take and save digital photos means that we can sometimes develop a casual attitude towards looking after them. Some are on the camera itself, some on a memory stick, yet more scattered around various parts of your home computer, and when you feel like you might want to look at them you face the incredibly tough task of even tracking them down to begin with.

Personalised photo books offer an elegant and stylish solution to this problem which allows you to collect your chosen images in one volume produced to the highest possible standards. Whether you want to put a varied collection of photos into one volume, or produce something with a thematic thread running through it is entirely up to you, but amongst the events which are most obviously suitable for commemoration in a photo book are the following:

Wedding – every wedding produces hundreds of images, so why not gather up all of those not captured by the official photographer in a book which will tell the true story of your special day?

Holiday – digital photography means that virtually every single moment of a holiday can be captured, so why not put the best together in an album which can be brought out to cheer you up on those long, cold winter evenings?

Baby – our pictures of our children are amongst the most precious which any of us own and a book which tells the story of a baby’s first year through a collection of delightful images will quickly become established as one of the favourite books on your shelves.

The possibilities are virtually limitless, as are the options available. Every aspect of the book can be altered and tweaked to meet your every need. The size and shape of the book, the cover, the layout of each individual page, whether it’s a hard or a soft back book and whether you choose to add text and captions to the images. The only ‘work’ involved in producing photo books lies in uploading the images you wish to use and then utilising the software involved to design the look and layout of your pages. Absolutely no experience is required, and at the end of the process you’ll be sent a book produced to professional standards which will be yours to treasure for years to come.

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How to Get Over a Guy – 4 Tips to Get Over Him NOW!

Figuring out how to get over a guy is really challenging and emotionally draining for a lot of women. There are nuances that make every breakup unique; however, there are also a few universal tips that can help you forget the past and move on with your life. Below are four of my top tips to help you move on with your life after a break up.

Tip #1: Make the Decision to Move On

The worst thing you can do to yourself when getting over your ex is to spend time thinking about your past relationship. We have a way of always romanticizing the one we lost, especially when it is the guy who made the decision to break off the relationship. By distorting who your ex really is, you are only fueling the passion or anger you have for him, good or bad. Just remember that, whoever he is, there are many others out there who are just as good, if not better than him. You will meet this guy, but only if you make the decision to move on with your life.

Tip #2: Spend Time With Friends

Often times, we find ourselves neglecting our true friends when we find ourselves in a relationship. Fortunately, your friends understand your need for love and will be there to support you when times get tough. Go out with your friends, have fun, and enjoy the adventures of life that you are sometimes unable to enjoy while in a relationship. A major key in figuring out how to get over a guy is to simply figure out how to move on to a new routine. Once you get into a routine with your friends, you will quickly move on from activities that simply remind you of your ex.

Tip #3: Improve Yourself

A great tip for getting over your ex is to focus on yourself. Is there something you always wanted to do with your life, but you had sacrificed it for the good of your prior relationship? Get back to this passion now! Being single can actually be mentally and emotionally refreshing. Use this time to take on a new activity, travel, learn something new or meet new people. This is your chance to be selfish and focus on what it is that you want out of your life. Trust me, this will make you even more attractive when you meet your next man!

Tip #4: Date Other People

This tip is so simple, but is so often overlooked! One of my friends was complaining to me about how her boyfriend broke up with her last week and how she was emotionally broken. Her life was over until I re-assured her that she was attractive and had a lot going for her. I told her that she needed to start dating again and introduced her to some guys. It’s been two weeks since then and she’s already passionately in love again with a new guy.

What you need to realize when figuring out how to get over a guy is that there are literally millions of guys in this world who might be a match for you. Move on with your life and enjoy meeting these men today! Single life can be fun, adventurous, and will eventually lead you to the right person. You just need to trust yourself and focus on moving on with a positive mindset.

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4 Creative Ways to Be Romantic in a Long Distance Relationship

Could it be that everyone is in happy relationships when you are alone missing your partner who is 2000 miles away. Your frustration is real, you long for a real-live hug, a tender kiss, just the feel of not having your partner in close proximity poses a dilemma.

Don’t forget, this is a choice – you can break up with your partner or you can wrap things up and get a ticket – or you can embrace the situation and enjoy your aloneness. Your partner is special and makes you feel warm and loved – to keep your romance alive, come up with a few really great ways of staying coupled..

-Special love letters might bring out the poet in you – say all those things you want to say and never get around to when you are together. Write a love story together depicting your arrangement and how to make the time apart even more special – you play the guy if you’re the girl, he can play the girl – amazing insights come to the surface when we are faced with situations from the other partner‘s point of view. Keep it light and breezy and you’ll have a lot of fun.

-Skype is a wonderful tool, you can connect in the early AM before work, during breakfast or just before your shower – it’s just you and your partner in the Skype camera, a little love play between lovers can be fun – you will both look forward to the mornings.

-Go see the same movie, on the same night and in the morning you can sit and discuss the plot and how much you enjoyed it, or not. Keeping yourselves connected is what long distance has against it. There are several things that work in favor of a long distance relationship.

-Many long distance relationships have commonality of a spiritual nature – before retiring for the night, you might want to Skype your partner and read passages from the Bible before bed, your church may have a study program that you can both share through a face book chat.

Keep your visits upbeat and happy and you will both look forward to reconnecting. Being alone allows you free time to see your friends, take a study course of something you have been dying to learn and remember, you have the wonderful feeling of an intimate relationship without giving up your individuality or half of the bed, although that’s probably not exactly what you want.

One special perk of long distance relationships is traveling to see your partner – hopefully this can be reciprocal – like little mini-vacations – book yourselves into a different hotel for a night during each visit and enjoy all of the amenities. Every visit will feel like a new beginning.

You will adore this quote because it says everything about how we feel when distance separates us.

“Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell.” Edna St Vincent Millay

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Already Dead (a Short Story)

The Room

She is down, down in the China Cabinet; her insides, ashes, that’s all that is left of her–wood around her, and her, she’s just ashes, that’s it in a nutshell:

“Over there” –I say and point, point and say, not sure which one first: she’s just ashes, “In that China cabinet,” she’s a ghost, I suppose.

I sense she is present, here in this room, in St. Paul, Minnesota, her room, where now I have the china cabinet: I can’t be sure she is present, but I can tell exactly where her presence is. Mike, my brother, “…she talked to me yestertday…” I tell him; I can’t remember exactly what she said, told me, I tell Mike, but that is a lie, I do remember, I just say that: she told me to travel to places my heart desires, now, right now, before it is too late. I think she was saying: a live dog is better than a dead lion.Thus, if I can do it now.

I thank God, have thanked God, several times have thanked God, she had a peaceful death. My wife says, says she had the most peaceful death she had ever seen. I am so grateful to God, to Jesus for this.

“Why doesn’t she go…go Straight to heaven…?” my brother asked me. He–

“Heaven,” I say, I’m looking at the urn, wooden urn, with a butterfly on it, carved in wood, and a statue of Christ on it, carved in wood, I got in Rio de Janeiro a few years ago.

“Why does she want to stay down here?” he asks. Her physical life is over I KNOW, AND Mike is asking stupid questions, I say, not to him to myself (retorical).

I say, “For me, she stayed down here for me:” -chew on that.

–I look for mom in the shadows of he house, when Rosa is asleep: I think I find her ghost, but I know I really dont; I know God has her. Jesus,–Jesus, she believed in Jesus, but I need her around for awhile longer–so tell her, so she hears me, and if she doesn’t Jesus does, and He can get the message to her. I know she hears me, and she’s in the house. She wants to go, but if she does, she returns.

Mike stands up, pauses by the urn, sullen, adrift. My voice is thin, it has been since she died, died, died, I hate that word, but it is appointed to each person, like it or not. And so my voice is thin, thoughts appear to me, ‘I’m Fine She tell me.’ She had a peacefull death; Rosa says so and, and I saw it happen, kind of, for 30-days visiting her in the hospital, and then, then death, it was peaceful. She says: “I’m fine…Ok with it.” She was, but I was not. I suppose I am now, I told Jesus…it was alright to take her, after 30-days of seeing her at the hospital, and–well, she wasn’t getting much better. Rosa says she had a peaceful death, and so she did.

The muscles in my face are sore: sore from crying, grieving, it’s funny how a face can stretch, get contorted when it grieves. Rosa knows my face is sore, I doubt Mike does. He’s pacing the floor now, looks back at the urn–it’s fornoon, a few days after the wake. We were filling out paper work, lots of paperwork when someone dies in America. Insurance, funeral, etc. I can’t really, not really do a thing worthwhile, not a damn thing–

wish I could, but I cant, maybe dont want to, what for…Rosa wants me to see a doctor, Doctor Sullwold, at the VA Hospital, depression I think; but I never get depress, that is, I never did, I suppose I am…I suppose I’ve lost my ability to function normally, whatever normal is. Today for me normal is to feel sad, maybe be depressed. Am I suppose to be happy? Some say Christians should celebrate when a loved one dies, but hell with that, I dont, dont, dont want to and wont. I am exhaused now, Mike passes me again, walks to the kitchen, to the bathroom, a bird at the window is watching us, maybe not us, maybe just me….

Mother Calls

This time Rosa is sleeping, clinging to the side of the bed, hitting it now and then, I normally can hear her, when I am up–I can hear it from the living room and dinning room, kind of know she’s all right. Today she is sleeping in the bed, side of the bed and I’m by her side, was by her side, when we went to bed last night, she somehow got on the other side of the bed, the side you can fall off of. It is three weeks now since the wake. My muscles were still sore when I went to bed

–they crept into the garage (I assumed later on it was ‘they,’not one person): they crept into the garage, which is attached to the house and found a broom, a few brooms, and other wooden handled items, put them together in a nice little circle, leaned them against a wooden cabinet where tools are kept, and lit it on fire, too, they poured gas from one side of the two car garage to our car but the fire did not take hold completly. It was lit now, and Rosa and I were asleep, Rosa on the edge of the bed, the fire went most out, but there were bright ashes left, as if they were looking toward that tool cabinet, and if so it would have found its way to the ceiling and then the whole house (so the Fire Captain confirmed.)

Rosa was woken up, finding (as she opened the bedroom door, 10:15 AM), the house filled with smoke, and the garage likewise, and the brooms scortched, and the ashes, with eyes of fire…she woke me up, and grabbed a wet towel, putting out the fire, and thus, airing out the house and garage.

“Fire, fire,” she had yelled to wake me up. I was in a drift, not sure where I was.

“How the hick did you get up?” I asked.

“Someone woke me up,” she explained. It would had taken only a few more minutes had my wife not been woken, and the house would had burned down. But what voice was it, whoes voice? It was my mother’s voice, or so I believe, who elses? Is what I told her, there was no one else in the house, and I was too deep into sleep to have noticed an earthquake. I said to Rosa,

“It was my mother, do you believe me now?” not that she ever doubted me.

“I never said I didn’t believe you,” she commented.

The Urn

“It still hurts mom!” I told her looking at the urn– I come to this urn every day and tell to you: say, good night, good morning (I think once she told me to throw her ashes over into the river and go on with my life, I think she said that, but then I said, maybe she didnt’t, or maybe that is what I did not want her to say, and added my own little doubt into the equation). I guess that is love. Anyhow, I go on to bed, lay down, wake up, you don’t have to sleep I know. I wonder if She found Earny (her old boyfriend for 40-years, who died 10-years before her).

This grieving process is for the birds, it is like pulling out your guts slowly, slowing pulling-them out and forcing yourself to look at them at the same time.

Afterward

Already Dead

I’ve learned life is letting go–as you go from day to day, as you go down hill. IN the valley you got to grab on to the moment, and eat some sweets. And then up yuo go back up the mountain, shoulder and spine, sweat from the braw, step by step, up the hill to new beginnings. It’s all part of life I guess, all three parts. I suppose if there is a secret it is in not getting stuck in any one of the three parts too long. In a way we are already dead, but I suppose we call it: getting ready, but the moment will arrive, ready or not.

The house is quiet now, mom left, she’s with Jesus, I told her I was ready to let go, and so go she did. And I’d, — I’d see her later, that’s what I told her, she like me, I’m sure have things to do, but it had to be done, I had to let her know it was alright.

Note: Written in four hours during our 6 1-2 hour ride, while on a bus (going through the Andes) from Lima, Peru to Huancayo, 10/18/05; revised and edited in Huancayo.

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Disney Cinderella DVD – The Birthday Gift That Keeps on Giving

Give your birthday child the gift that keeps on giving.

Cinderella

Walt Disney’s feature length animated movie Cinderella was originally released in 1950.

Ilene Woods provided the voice of Cinderella and Eleanor Audley voiced the wicked stepmother. And by the way, Eleanor Audley can now be heard as the voice of Madam Leota in the Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland and Disney world.

The year Cinderella was released it received an Oscar nomination for best musical score including the catchy song “Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo.”

The story

Cinderella holds up very well, even by today’s standards.

Cinderella lives under the constant cruelty of her unsympathetic stepmother who treats her like a slave. And to make matters worse, Cinderella is constantly teased and tormented by her two stepsisters.

But through it all, Cinderella maintains a kind and loving heart which she generously shares with the local birds and animals while she dreams of a better life for herself.

Then with the magical help of her fairy Godmother, Cinderella’s life begins to change dramatically.

With a wave of her magic wand

The fairy godmother transforms Cinderella into a vision of beauty and sends her on her way to the Royal Ball where she meets and falls in love with the handsome Prince.

But as the clock strikes midnight

Cinderella seems condemned to a life as a slave to her cruel stepmother.

Then, just when all seems lost

With the help of a very special glass slipper, Cinderella meets the Prince once again. The two are married and live happily ever after.

Today, the magic of Cinderella lives on.

Cinderella castle stands as a shinning centerpiece at both Disneyland in California and Disney World in Florida.

And now, Walt Disney’s original Cinderella is available as a very special edition DVD.

A dream come true

This special release gives everyone that grew up with the Cinderella story the opportunity to rediscover this truly classic movie.

And now our children and grandchildren can discover the magic of Cinderella for the first time.

Some things never change and thankfully Walt Disney’s Cinderella is one of them.

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This Friendship Day Reunited With Old Friends

The most memorable moment in life is when you meet old friends whom you had lost touch midway in the journey of life. You will be overwhelmed with the feeling of emotional detachment, realizing how much you have been missing him or her all these years. Having them around will remind you of all those golden moments that you spent together in the rain, amidst the morning mist or under the scorching sun. It will remind you of those golden moments of sharing lunch together and exchanging your friendship bands.

Friendship day is just around the corner and you can plan for a grand reunion and arrange for a rocking get together with all your old friends on Friendship Day 2007. Celebrate your reunion with enthusiasm full to the brink. Share all your emotions that you had stored for them for this long span of time. So just go ahead with your plan for celebrating a reunion on this Friendship Day and make the day an unforgettable episode of your life. All you need to do is gather all the contact details of your old friends and kick start the exciting venture.

Collect The Contact Details

This era of technology has made it a lot easier for you to reach out to your lost friends instantly with your plan. Take out some time from your leisure moments and sit with all your old notebooks, dairies and arrangers. Take out all the phone numbers, email addresses, and mailing address of all those golden people whose memories have been haunting you since years. Get the information noted down carefully on a piece of paper.

Contact Them

An amazing way to bring them closer once again after such a long span of time is to send them cute ecards through email wishing them all the good wishes and heart felt love. Remember that every good thing in life begins with love and hope. Always go for any of the free ecard sites. 123greetings.com is one of the most genuine sites that strike my mind at this moment. You can find wondrous assortment of free ecards – animated or non-animated, musical or non-musical that may prove to be the perfect choice for you to embark on such an exciting venture. Do not forget to write briefly about your plan.

You will be amazed to find that the majority of your friends have answered but do not feel depressed, when you find that someone’s email ID does not exist. You can make a telephone call and strike him or her with a sudden wonder. Let them know about your plan and be sure that they cannot afford to loose the opportunity of having a great fun with old friends on this Friendship Day.

Pre-Friendship Day meeting

Arrange for a meeting with friends who stays nearby and who would want to take part in the meeting. This is the most vital part of the story. This get together is not for a regular party. Enjoy the day with a friendly meeting and planning for the reunion celebration on the Friendship Day. Share your thought about the celebration and together come up with a solid decision.

Let The Others Know

One more simple step is left yet. When everything has been finalized inform all other friends about the decision that has been taken in the meeting. Inform them about the venue, time and your plan. Now you are almost done.

Stay in touch with your friends and wait for the day to come. It is on the first Sunday of August and hence every single person is anticipated to join this grand reunion party. Keep yourself prepared before hand with your camera loaded and some extra film and a few dry cells.

If you want to surprise your friends on this Friendship Day by giving small gifts to each one of them start planning now and get them prepared, lest you do not make hast at the end and end up things stupidly. Budgeting is an essential part to be considered.

This Friendship Day article may be freely reprinted or distributed in its entirety in any ezine, newsletter, blog or website. The author’s name, bio and website links must remain intact and be included with every reproduction.

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Haiku and Tanka: Basics and Beyond

The haiku is a popular Japanese poetry form known worldwide. The tanka is an older, closely related poetic form that also has its origin in Japan. A haiku has three lines and a tanka has five lines. As adopted by American poets, these short, non-rhyming poems are written using a set amount of syllables per line.

Counting Syllables in a Haiku

It is common for the haiku to be taught in elementary schools as an early introduction to poetry because of its simple format. As it is usually taught, the first line has five syllables, the second line has seven syllables, and the third line has five syllables, as in these two examples I wrote:

The early spring rain

lingers on the tattered grass;

the earth drinks the rest.

A hot April day,

Sun bribes Rain with the promise

of humidity.

In the Japanese language, syllable sounds are much shorter than they are in English. Therefore, many English language poets try to achieve an effect closer to the Japanese tradition by creating haikus with fewer syllables per line, as in the following example:

A secret smile,

the crescent moon sits

in the daytime sky.

However, there is more to a haiku than the syllable count.

Nature and the Pivot

Although the topic of a haiku can be almost anything, the haiku traditionally mentions a season of the year–winter, spring, summer, fall. Sometimes the season is not mentioned directly. For instance to signify the winter, the haiku could talk about snow or frost. My first example above uses the word “Spring.” The second haiku implies that the season is spring through use of the words “hot April day.”

Instead of referring to a particular season of the year, a haiku may simply mention any aspect of nature–such as wind, temperature, flowers, ocean, trees, animals, or birds. In the third haiku above, the moon and sky are the references to nature.

Also, in the true tradition, a haiku has a pivot–that is, a pause or a break in meaning after either the first or second line that turns the poem in a different direction. In the first haiku above, the focus on the rain in the first two lines switches to the earth in the last line. In both the second and third haikus, the first line of the poem stands on its own and the second and third lines are a unit forming a complete thought and taking the poem to an unexpected place.

The Tanka

A traditional American tanka follows the 5-7-5-7-7 pattern for the number of syllable in each line. Ideally, each line of a tanka has its own unique imagery that fits together as a whole poem. In some cases, the first three lines function as a complete thought, with the last two lines providing further explanation. Here is an example:

My car, hell on wheels,

Drives me down an empty beach.

Sand performs dervish.

Relentlessly oceanward,

The sound is big, the smell, wide.

On the other hand, it is also common for the first two lines of a tanka to form a complete thought and then the last three lines to form a thought, as is the case in my tanka below:

My nights are dreamless

comas wrapped in blank pages.

My dreams are sleepless,

living as my surrogates,

day-recurring fantasies.

As with haikus, many poets write tankas with fewer syllables per line. Unlike a haiku, a tanka does not have to refer to a season or to nature. A tanka traditionally does not use violent imagery.

Tribal Tattoos: Not Just an Ordinary Tattoo

Tribal body tattoo designs actually originated from the Maori tribe of New Zealand. They have since become popular among many tattoo parlors in other countries including the US. While the original tattoo bearers usually wore these tattoos on their faces as well, body tattoos are more common in modern society, as they can be covered by clothing.

Tribal body tattoo markings are also very unique and individual, allowing a person to express his or her personality. These tattoos used to signify that warriors were going into battle, or would in some way demonstrate prowess amongst the tribe.

Now, getting a tribal body tattoo sets you apart from the crowd, and really allows your own creativity to shine forth. If you are interested in modeling or showing off your tattoos, a tribal tattoo will really stand out.

One thing that makes these tattoos so unique is their fiery, exciting design. Tribal tattoos naturally draw the eye in the direction of the pattern. They look like black flame on a person’s body, and this adds a kind of heat to your personality when people see your tattoos. If you want to impress that special someone, getting a tattoo is a great way to do it – and a great incentive to stick to a healthy diet and exercise program.

Of course, if you’d also like to just show off the body you’ve been working on, tattoos are a great excuse to do so. Tribal body tattoo designs are a little more sophisticated and meaningful than regular body tattoos. They are seen to have a spiritual significance amongst the original tribe members, and that significance has not been lost on modern wearers of tattoos.

If you’re interested in getting a tattoo that’s a little more refined, but still exciting, tribal body tattoo designs are definitely worth looking at. It’s also a good idea to ask about, or research, the meaning of the tattoo you pick. Often, certain designs signify specific traits, or had significant meaning in the Maori tribe.

Whenever you’re seeking out a new tattoo parlor or artist, be sure to do some background checking to make sure they’re safe. Some parlors don’t always keep the best hygiene, or reuse needles, which is something you want to avoid at all costs. Be sure to ask your tattoo artist of choice about his or her experience, as well.

When going for a tribal tattoo, it’s especially important to pick an experienced tattoo artist, as they’ll be able to nail the patterns and designs better than someone who’s not used to doing tribal tattoos. You can usually find a portfolio or list of credentials which will verify the artist’s capabilities.

Ultimately, choosing a tribal tattoo that covers the chest, back, or arms – or all three – is a great way to impress your friends and bring out your own personality. Don’t be afraid to spend some time thinking carefully about what defines you, and what kind of designs you think would fit you best. Tattoos are ultimately deep expressions of the self, so it’s important to pick one that you’ll be happy with for a long time.

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Face Reading for Rob McElhenney

When the new season for “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia” started in 2011 we were surprised to see Rob McElhenney with 50 extra pounds. My daughter in law knew I did face and hand reading so she asked me to do a reading to find out what kind of guy would gain so much weight to make his TV character funnier. The man and the show are hilarious, so I thought it would be fun to see what personality traits drive him.

FAMILY/FRIENDS

Several areas show that he cares deeply for his family. He is affectionate and friendly. He is casual, talkative and likeable, easily approachable and has a talent for spontaneous communication. So he probably speaks to people standing in line at the grocery store.

HOW HE FEELS

He needs a good amount of personal space, he is physically active and enjoys being outside in the fresh air and wide open spaces. He has a sense of adventure yet also enjoys coming home to his family and daily routines. Emotional security is important to him.

He may be stubborn and impatient when under stress. He may resist suggestions and have a desire to control situations. He has a strong will with keen insight and inspirational talents. He is very good at applying his talents. He is confident in his abilities and is good at expressing himself.

HOW HE THINKS

He is an independent thinker, and does not always go along with what others think is ‘normal’. He probably doesn’t like to talk about his personal views on things.

He likes systems and order; he may make lists and plan many areas of his life. He is meticulous, and notices problems and inconsistencies. He does not function well in chaos.

His personality is fire-like; he is an intuitive quick thinker which lends well to his writing abilities. He thinks in big terms, he is practical and street smart. He uses his instinct to guide him in situations.

He is creative type and doesn’t work well with rules and restrictions. He can be a visionary with radical opinions (like gaining 50 pounds for a TV show)

WORK/CAREER/MONEY

He enjoys attention and performing. He is career oriented, working long hours and focuses on the future.

He does not worry about how he spends his money; he is generous with his friends and family. He can be intense and tends to accomplish more than most.

For entertainment purposes only, Rob McElhenney did not authorize, endorse or is in any way associated with this personality reading. I used photos from the web to gather my information.

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